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In the past few months, I have read a number of articles describing the differences between managers and leaders. I see the leader role glamorized, leaving those skilled in management with less credit than they deserve.
To challenge, encourage, and equip individuals and groups to discover and employ their unique gifts, talents, abilities, and experiences in realizing noble causes that improve the lives of people.
My view is that our world desperately needs more effective leaders that place people first in accomplishing the work. Furthermore, I also believe that the best managers and leaders complement each other in fulfilling the mission.
Without effective managers, leaders accomplish little.
The importance of the exemplary manager
To build sustainable teams, organizations, and products we need the best of breed in both roles. We need more effective managers. My experience has shown me that rarely do we find people who are both a superior leader and manager. Assuming this assertion is true, our organizations must be purposeful in filling our ranks with the right combination of both to be successful. Agree?
Leader over Manager?
I’m wondering if the increased emphasis on leadership in the workplace is going to create problems for the organizations of the future. Think about this. Do we have “management” programs or do we have “leadership” programs? Which program has more prestige? Hmmm.
Why is this a problem?
First, I think we need more managers than leaders. Trying to make everyone a leader (the one that sets direction) creates strife and chaos. People feel safest when they know where they are supposed to be which is why we cannot have more than one person communicating the way to go. Doing so creates confusion and fear. Secondly, placing the value of the leader role above the manager role can tempt our best managers to take on a role that doesn’t suit them.
Q. Can anyone lead?
A. Yes. I believe every person can grow their leadership capacity and lead effectively.
Q. Can everyone become a great leader?
A. I might get into trouble here, but I doubt it. I’m not seeing it today. I think that is ‘ok’. Not everyone is built for it. While leading more effectively is something I have committed my life to and encourage others to do as well, we all have a limit. How well we are able to increase our leadership is in relation to the gifting one has in them already and how much work they are willing to put in to maximize it. Let’s remember, that there is only one CEO for each company, only one president of a country, and only one chairperson of a non-profit. What I am suggesting is that we should continue to improve, but understand that we should operate within our giftings.
Q. So what do we do?
A. I think instead of striving to be the leader, we should lead wherever we are to the best of our ability, encourage our peers to operate in the areas they are strongest, respect what we each bring to the team, then move forward together. I think that is how we build strong families, organizations, and nations that endure.
What if the problem is left to run its course?
I think we are seeing it right now. We hear it all the time from our peers regardless of organization or industry. Organizations that encourage the most talented managers to play the leader role create disengaged teams. I’m not sure if we have spent enough time thinking about that.
Organizations value leadership today and they should. What I am suggesting is what Gallup teaches; people do their best work when they develop their strengths. What if an effective manager has many strengths, but leading isn’t one of them?
When we make people play a leader role when that is not their gifting we see the people suffer. I’m hoping that when we have an opportunity to invite a person into leadership that we can begin inviting those most talented in this area.
When managers play the leader role
We have all experienced this and we need to address it by elevating the role of manager, not by making managers leaders. Today, people I meet are not looking to be managed, they want a person to lead them. A person of integrity, vision, and one that values diversity of thought. A person that embodies a compelling vision. One with deep purpose where each employee can contribute their part using their unique talents, skills and abilities to make the dream come alive.
When leaders play the manager role
Similarly, organizations that force the most talented leaders to focus on managing find themselves with underutilized leaders that will look for greener pastures where their leadership can be amplified and have more impact.
The best teams and managers are what make the best leaders successful. While everyone in our organization can lead more effectively with training and practice, the people most gifted in leadership will find it comes more naturally.
We would do well to honor the giftings that each bring and not force one to become the other. Couldn’t organizations find a way to respect the differences and reward each for what they bring similar to what we do for individual contributors and supervisors today?
How they work together
Employing shepherd leadership principles can help both become successful. Here is how I have seen the best managers and leaders complement each other. Let me know what you think.
Leaders set the vision, managers implement it
Once the leader has clearly articulated the vision, the team validates it and buys in. Then the real work begins. Getting things done is not always the strength of the leader. The individual playing the leader role needs the right manager to make the team’s shared vision into reality.
Leaders influence change, managers define how best to put it in place
The leader earns permission to lead the team and motivates them to move in a particular direction. It is in partnership with the manager that details on how to effectively travel towards the objective is realized. Together, they make changes as they go. Without exemplary managers the leaders would arrive at the destination with a broken team. We have seen this before.
Managers provide valuable insight
Leaders need to hear the truth, weigh various perspectives, look at data objectively. All of this information provided by a superior management team inform the leader, enabling them to make the best decisions.
It is the manager that helps them to see clearly, how things connect, and illuminate both the risks and opportunities. Without superior managers, even the best leaders can find themselves making poor decisions.
The best managers give sacrificially
When there is work to do, they make it happen. They sacrifice themselves for their teams and the leader. When they commit, they deliver. When they over-commit, they deliver too. They don’t expect more of their teams than they are willing to give and they are likely in the trenches with their teams when called upon.
When following the best leaders, this will be the culture. And the leadership modeled by the leader will be emulated at every level. This is shepherd leadership in action.
Success depends on the manager
Mostly it is the leader who gets the spotlight and the accolades. However, it is the team and managers that have made the difference between success and failure. The leader casts the vision, inspires follower-ship, and the team assembled makes it happen. The manager’s job is never finished. Most don’t get the luxury of moving to the next thing. Some wouldn’t want to because they see the opportunity to make things better where they are at. In fact, many thrive on making what was built even better.
We need to respect the real differences between leader and manager so we can build the most effective teams that our organizations need to build strong organizations and serve our our clients.
- Are you gifted more in the area of management or leadership?
- What can you do today to further develop your gifting?
- How does recognizing your natural gifting change how you approach your work?
Shepherding: The art of becoming the leader others want to follow
Shepherd leadership provides a framework to enable teams to reach their full potential. Our first success comes when we embrace the idea that the leader is a role to be played. Continue reading “7 leadership principles for constructing teams of the future”
A team is a living organism and created for a reason. We understand that no team is exactly the same because each is comprised of human beings. Continue reading “What colors make up the best team?”
An open letter to those experiencing unexpected change and what to do about it.
I’m sorry that you are having to go through change. Especially when you did not want it. You were happy and things were going well. Continue reading “Embracing change in the workplace”
In the leaders’ journey, situations arise that cause us to experience uncertainty. We feel uncertain when methods employed successfully in the past no longer work, we don’t know why, and we begin to question our competency to lead.
As a person who leads others, I have times of great tension. We all go through peaks and valleys. Be encouraged. I’ve yet to encounter an individual who doesn’t experience highs and lows as they walk their journey.
For those of you going through these times today, you are feeling the tension and perhaps anxiety which bring discomfort. I get it.
Watch out! It is during these times when life and circumstance press in on us that we may make choices that cause us to lose our way.
What are the signs that we may be losing our way?
Unresolved inner conflict
Unresolved inner conflict is different than just some indecisiveness in a particular area of life and work we are thinking about. It may be caused by a traumatic event, our own past acts, or people in the past that have hurt us.
Our journey of leading will certainly attract new external pressures that will come to test us. They will push on those areas that we have not resolved and we will be tempted to say or do things that we regret.
Response: To continue to lead confidently, take steps to resolve inner conflicts as they are discovered. Resolution allow us to clearly see the path and not stray.
People make mistakes. The best leaders learn from them. If we are not learning from poor decisions, we risk losing the credibility to lead. Effective leadership requires sound judgement. Trust is the foundation for connection and people will risk following those who they feel have poor judgement.
Response: Evaluate a recent misstep with openness and willingness to change with individuals you trust and so you can experience growth.
Our team expresses concerns
When our team begins noticing behaviors that seem out of character, this should trigger us to action.
Response: Examine how our current path is fulfilling our purpose, aligning to our core values, and adding value to people.
We find ourselves taking the easy path
If we are not facing some resistance, we are probably taking a well-trodden path. Over time, this will lead to regret as we will not have built up the endurance to overcome difficult challenges that will surely present themselves in the future.
Response: Recommit to doing work that matters even when that means taking an untraveled path.
What you are doing today reflects what you will become.
Adopting values of others
If we ever find ourselves beginning to emulate people who live contrary to what we believe as I wrote about in leaders to avoid, can ruin our credibility and take years to recover.
Response: Stop this way of thinking and behaviors as soon as you recognize them. Apologize to others and ask for their help if they see a re-occurrence.
How do we get back on track?
When we begin to realize we have drifted or have even derailed the fact that we have recognized our predicament should be celebrated because now we can do something about it.
While we may feel regret for things we’ve done or how far we find ourselves from where we want to be, we can’t change the path we have already walked, but there is hope in a new future and it begins with one step. The shepherd leader accepts responsibility and takes it.
Seriously. Get quiet. Breathe. Listen.
Reflect. Walk. Exhale. Pray. Hug your family. Let them hug you back. Take in all that is good in the world; what is good in your life; what good you have accomplished. Doing these things will begin to let go the negative and bring opportunity for positive energy to flow.
Seize the moment and realize that there is hope and you will be okay.
Remember your center
Think about who you are (who you truly are) and how you got here and who you want to become. As you think deeply, what is the one word that resonates within you? For me, it is connection. What is yours?
Need help with this, you might check out Evan Carmichael’s book, “Your One Word” for guidance.
Questions may help you find your center:
- Where did you come from?
- What do you value most in others?
- What is most dear to you?
- When you felt most alive, what were you doing?
Look for your star
Who do you need to become? What is the one thing you would do if there were no boundaries and money was not an issue? How could you make change that helps the one or the many that only you can do? When you think on these things, the light you are to follow will become brighter.
At this time the destination is less important than the direction. Your star will keep you progressing in the right direction.
Living our values regardless of circumstance is what means to be an authentic leader.
What happens now?
We focus our efforts on the next best step.
Now that we have caught our breath, have found our center, and have a focal point, it is up to us to take one step in that direction. When we walk in the light that we know, we move us closer to the one we have purposed to become.
The good news is if we find the courage to take one step, we can find the strength to take the next.
When we are where we are supposed to be and focused on the right things, the genius of our creator shows up and the change we want to make becomes possible through us.
To lead well, we must lead ourselves well first.
When we know who we are, our actions will follow and we will not lose our way. People who identify with us and see a brighter future in the direction we are traveling won’t be far behind.
Shepherding: The art of becoming the leader others want to follow